Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic & the Domestic

From Publishers Weekly Developed originally from an article she wrote on "erotic intelligence," psychotherapist Perel's first book sets forth a thesis for today's couples that is as revelatory as it is straightforward. Some of the proposals Perel recommends for rekindling eroticism involve cultivating separateness (e.g., autonomy) in a relationship rather than closeness (entrapment); exploring dynamics of power and control (i.e., submission, spanking); and learning to surrender to a "sexual ruthlessness" that liberates us from shame and guilt. Partnerships are supposed t

A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home.One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire

On loving and sexuality A friend asked me why he found sex with his wife "routine". He said he loved his wife and having sex with her still felt good, but he didn't feel "turned on". Instead, he found himself fantasizing about sex with other women. This book answers that question completely and helps. "good not great" according to Izabella15good not great Izabella1541@gmail Written for high minded intellectuals, more a labor to read then a love. If you can get through it there are some sound points and there are many examples that you will find mirroring some of your own behavior. This book makes you feel less alone in your sexual loss but offers. 1@gmail. Written for high minded intellectuals, more a labor to read then a love. If you can get through it there are some sound points and there are many examples that you will find mirroring some of your own behavior. This book makes you feel less alone in your sexual loss but offers. If you have any doubts, check her TED talk. Esther Perel is sharp! C. Nathan Bergeron Deep thinker. Brilliant and eloquent writer. Inspiring and refreshing. She says out loud what many of us know to be true, but keep to ourselves.